Guest Posted February 23, 2007 Share Posted February 23, 2007 someone please tell me how to flirt with the ladies, I have no clue how to break the ice with the pretty girls. To all dudes, how do start talking to girls, what do you say to them? And to the girls, what do you like hearing from guys you just met, what do most guys you haven't spoken to before say to you to start talking to you? Thanks in advance for any advice Link to post Share on other sites
ratzskinakie Posted February 24, 2007 Share Posted February 24, 2007 Just do whatever you feel is right, dig in, experiement, etc. The truth is, you just have to go for it. Though you might say and do alot of things you will wish you didn't or could take back. But the point is you will learn from it all and get better at it, its not easy. Take many opertunities to practice and experiment talking and flirting and you will get better at it. Just like learning anything else (riding a bike, snowboarding, playing an instrument, playing pool, getting in shape, sports, etc...) it takes work, time, effort and practice. It will suck for a while, it may be tough mentally and maybe emotionaly for a while, but trust me. If you want to see results with flirting and talking to girls, the only way to do it is by actually doing it. I used to suck at talking to pretty girls, be anxious, scared, shy, everything. (I used to be the computer geek with social anxiety) but then for several months I started to take opertunities talking and socializing to girls, in school, buisnesses like cashiers at the grocery stores. I would do things I'd regret for weeks, make a fool of myself sometimes. But now, I can pretty much approach any girl, and talk to her more confidently. I can flirt too if I wanted to, thanks to all my experience and work. Though, I still sometimes get shy, anxious everynow and then, but like any other human, its normal. The best part is, I can approach girls now better than most of my friends and guys I know. Link to post Share on other sites
konfuzd Posted February 26, 2007 Share Posted February 26, 2007 Just start small. Open lines of communication with someone like a cashier, or someone you are already interacting with. Instead of just saying "hi, thank you, bye". Ask a question, "how's your weekend going?" "I saw this spinach dip, and have never tried it before, is it any good?" Whatever gets her talking. You'll figure out that it's really not that hard, and eventually, you can move up to longer conversations, and work up the courage to ask a girl out. We're really not that scary, I promise! Link to post Share on other sites
Trialbyfire Posted February 26, 2007 Share Posted February 26, 2007 Yes, girls are evil and scary creatures who will consume their mates once they've mated with them. Oh, hang on, that's the female black widow spider so I guess it's true. As previously expressed, just start talking to strangers in general, female preferably. After awhile you'll get the hang of what won't freak girls out by being too forward or awkward. Please do not perspire heavily when speaking to a girl. It makes us uncomfortable when beads of sweat are rolling down your face. Link to post Share on other sites
magichands Posted February 26, 2007 Share Posted February 26, 2007 I really have no idea, but I will be watching this thread with interest. Link to post Share on other sites
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