sixthchick Posted February 23, 2007 Share Posted February 23, 2007 My friends are mad that i'm going back out with my ex that cheated on me. Why can't they just be happy that i'm happy? If i'm not happy with any one else then why are they bugging on this? I want to let them know I have really strong feelings for him and if he doesn't change his ass is mine, and if he does then their being stupid. Yea I know their looking out for me but they could do it without doing it this way. I want to be happy if that means being with him then i'll do it. So how would I let them know he makes me happy and I really don't care if they get mad or not? Link to post Share on other sites
ash519 Posted February 23, 2007 Share Posted February 23, 2007 Do you watch Sex and the City? Same thing happend!!!! But, if you want to tell them that, say it "I'm happy, being careful and if you guys dont like it then fine, but as my friends i really hope you will be there for me no matter how this goes. And if i am giving him a chance, maybe you should, for my sake." That's what I would say. But keep in mind...if you had a friend whos bf cheated and she stayed or took him back....would you be mad? They are probably just frustrated that you dont care about your emotional well being as much as they do (in their minds at least) and they just want what is best for you. Link to post Share on other sites
norajane Posted February 23, 2007 Share Posted February 23, 2007 They are worried he's going to cheat on you again, and they know that you will turn to them for support if he breaks your heart again, and they know you're going to turn to them if he does something that makes you suspicious, etc. They're just trying to make sure you know what you're getting into, and it's not just that he sweet-talked you into getting back together. Link to post Share on other sites
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