There were signs I should have caught right away even when we were engaged. All the phone calls from "old girl friends". He was a public figure, a good catch, the old GFs annoyed me slightly but....we met and became engaged quickly. They couldn't know he was no longer available right? Besides, he persued me, he adored me. I was indifferent and then...I was crazy about him.
During the first year of our marriage I really wanted to know who he was texting all day and IMing all evening. We both
From someone elses thread:
The question being : why does BS blame OW more than MM?
Its a fair question and on the surface easy to say the wife shouldn't blame OW at all perhaps, and certainly not more than MM.
I'm dealing with same right now. Now, my H is a just newly discovered serial cheater. For him to even know enough about the other women, regarding names, faces, where, when...I would have to make him Flash Cards to work with. So, obviously blaming any of them is pointless. They did
First to everyone who PMd me:
I needed that so much I didnt know it. Thank you . You are my friends.
Married 4 years go. He cheated right away. Went through hell, but took no real action.
A year later, he did it again via text messages I found, etc...took all the right steps: transparency, exposure, therapy, etc. Finally reached a happy place and regained trust.
8/2009
He NEVER stopped. Not for a moment. His behavior escalated over the past three years to some kind of bizarre nightm
QUOTE=boldjack;2327123]I'm surprised at you, 2sure. For trying to pull some **** like this......Oh! my delicate yankee ears can't understand all of that foreign gibberish, and I so wanted to communicate with Raul or Pablo, or Ahmed or Ludmilla(pick a foreign name) but My lily-white tongue just can't make those sounds. Woe is me! I can stomach most things, but Elitism makes me gag. You are part of NY society, so why should you have to learn about other cultures, when they are all inferior and /o
