In the long run, I do hope there will be more than one good thing. But, what I do know, is that Bob and I will make it to "till death do us part". I'm not going to leave him for John, and if I ever was going to leave him for someone, it would be for John. Of course Bob could still choose to leave me, but I highly doubt he ever will. He is not nor has ever been a "grass is greener" person. He's also the most loyal person I know. I guess all marriages go through their ups and downs. I believe we, or at least I, hit rock bottom when I fell in love with John, but I now know we are going to make it out. We are climbing up. We've still got a long way to go, but we are getting there.