Read these two things.

I love taking photos. I showed this guy I have been dating and friends with for a about a month some of my photos that I worked on. I sent him a link to view on FB. Later I asked did you see my photos and did you like them through email. He replied that he likes photos of ME and he saw one of me as a nurse and thought it was HOT. I mean that is great but photography is a love of mine and the photos I sent him were not of me they were various nice landscapes. So I said do you appreciate photography? Then he said you take nice pics and I hope we get some together etc etc, but it was kind of late and I got kind of hurt.

 

It seems shallow to me.

Then after talking about how distressing it is that the guy does not want to comment on her artwork she writes.

jobaba you are so right! The guys that are too nice seem fake sometimes or I don't like them, because they are too easy and the ones that don't say what I expect begin to worry me. OMG WHY ? Singledom is not SO horrible.

This is not to insult rebeccajones in any way. What she has written here illustrates the kind of thing that so called pick up artist talk about.

The whole thing about challenge and being a jerk etc etc.

Further it seems to be working on her.

The moral of the story for heterosexual men is to be a big perv and not care about the "real person". Don't just be a jerk be a real jack ___. Under a certain age say typical college age, women will go for that.

Thank almighty Allah I am transgender. Some things it makes way simpler.