Not sure where to start this, it's long and somewhat complicated. But I was sent to prison and I broke up with my fiance'. She wanted to stay together but i was mentally incapable and thought i was doing the best thing for her. She met someone and now lives with him, they've been together for 2 years or a little more. Since 2012 they have been living together.

Now I just returned home from my bid from 2010 and contacted her to say hello. She came to see me and told me how much she missed me and still she is "In-Love" with me. I tried to persuade her that i have nothing and she seems to be building a life with him. But she claimed she is not really happy and only loves him, but hasn't moved on from me. I was questioning was she still there out of obligation or to have a roof over her kids head.

We had been spending long nights on the phone cause he is not around and will not be back for 6 months. She said it would give us time to see where we are with each other. I didn't know how much I still was "In Love" with her, but once I realized it, I was ready.

After awhile, she said she was getting really confused and needed time to understand everything. She wants school to end for the semester and then really get back to things. I am trying to give it time, but seems that the calls have diminished and contact is only from me initiating. I agreed to give space but how much space is too much?

Anyone have been through this thing? Both Men and Women, I need your perspectives, especially if you've been through this....