Exactly. I could be lesbian, asexual, celibate, etc. It's impossible for him to know what I "need."

 

 

If a 60+ year old man is hitting on a woman who is less than half her age and assuming that she will have sex with him right off the bad, he could very well be assuming she is desperate. He just assumed I was gonna f him because he gave me a little attention. Sounds like he thinks I'm desperate.

normally if there is desperation it comes from within the person who is feeling it......he is assuming on his own needs thats why i dont want guys to tell me that .....because then i know they are actually feeling it........and i feel for them....sympathy and empathy with me.....i take on others.....and that means i am going to be tired.........deb